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Overcoming self-doubt and imposter syndrome

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Imposter syndrome can be a common but isolating experience, especially for Graduate Women stepping into the workforce. Despite having worked hard for your degree and earning your place in the world, many women struggle with feelings of self-doubt and inadequacy, often feeling like they don't truly belong. In fact, studies show that women are more likely to experience imposter syndrome than men, particularly as they transition from university to the professional world.

What is imposter syndrome?

Imposter syndrome is the feeling that you are a fraud or undeserving of your accomplishments, despite evidence to the contrary. You may feel like your success is due to luck rather than your skills and efforts, and fear that at any moment, others will "find out" that you don't belong. For graduate women, this can manifest during job applications, interviews, or even once you've secured your first position.

This syndrome is often internalised as a form of anxiety, where no matter how much you achieve, you still doubt your abilities and question whether you deserve your success. It can be particularly acute for women entering traditionally male-dominated industries, where the added pressure of proving yourself may exacerbate these feelings.

How to recognise imposter syndrome

Many graduate women may not immediately recognise that they are experiencing imposter syndrome. It often presents itself as:

  • Perfectionism: Setting unrealistically high standards for yourself and feeling like a failure when you don't meet them.
  • Attributing success to external factors: Believing that your achievements are due to luck, timing, or help from others rather than your own abilities.
  • Fear of being 'found out': Feeling that you will be exposed as a fraud if you make a mistake or don't have all the answers.
  • Overworking: Pushing yourself harder than necessary to 'prove' you are worthy of your role or accomplishments.

If any of these feelings resonate with you, you may be experiencing imposter syndrome. A 2020 study revealed that nearly 60% of women in the UK workforce have struggled with imposter syndrome at some point in their careers. For graduate women, this may start during the job search process when faced with the pressures of proving yourself in a new environment.

You are not alone

You're not alone in feeling this way. Imposter syndrome affects an estimated 70% of people at some point in their lives, and it's particularly prevalent among women. According to a study by KPMG, 75% of female executives have reported experiencing imposter syndrome during their careers. For recent graduates, stepping into professional environments for the first time can heighten these insecurities.

In the UK, research shows that women are less likely than men to negotiate salaries, apply for roles they don't feel 100% qualified for, and put themselves forward for promotions - all linked to the effects of imposter syndrome. This psychological barrier often stems from societal pressures and ingrained beliefs that women need to work twice as hard to prove their worth, which can create a cycle of self-doubt.

How to combat imposter syndrome and break the cycle

If you've identified that you're suffering from imposter syndrome, the next step is taking action to overcome it. Here are some practical strategies:

  1. Acknowledge your feelings: Recognising that you are experiencing imposter syndrome is the first step. Validate your feelings, but don't let them control you. It's important to accept that these thoughts are not reflective of reality.
  2. Keep a success journal: Write down your achievements, no matter how small, and revisit them when self-doubt creeps in. This can help reframe your thinking and remind you that your success is a result of your hard work and capabilities.
  3. Talk to a mentor or peer: Sharing your experiences with someone else can be liberating. You may find that others feel the same way, and a mentor can offer advice based on their own experiences of overcoming imposter syndrome.
  4. Challenge negative thoughts: Whenever you catch yourself thinking "I'm not good enough" or "I don't belong here," challenge those thoughts by reminding yourself of past successes and positive feedback from others.
  5. Reframe failure: Failure is part of growth, not a sign that you don't belong. Reframe failures as learning experiences rather than evidence that you are not good enough.
  6. Own your achievements: Start acknowledging and accepting your successes. If someone congratulates you on a job well done, say "thank you" rather than downplaying it. Remind yourself that you've earned your place and your accomplishments are yours.
  7. Seek professional support: If feelings of imposter syndrome are overwhelming, don't hesitate to reach out to a counsellor or mental health professional who can help you navigate these emotions.

Breaking the cycle

Imposter syndrome can trap you in a vicious cycle of self-doubt. The more successful you are, the more pressure you may feel to maintain that success, leading to further anxiety and insecurity. Breaking this cycle involves recognising that success does not require perfection.

It's okay to not have all the answers, to make mistakes, and to continue learning. No one, not even those in the highest positions, has all the answers or a perfect career trajectory. The key to combating imposter syndrome is to focus on your growth and accept that you deserve to be where you are.

For graduate women entering the workforce, imposter syndrome can feel like a weight that holds you back from realising your true potential. Remember, you are not alone in feeling this way - thousands of women across the UK experience the same challenges, and it's possible to overcome them.

By acknowledging your feelings, celebrating your successes, and challenging the thoughts that make you feel like you don't belong, you can break free from the imposter syndrome cycle. Believe in your abilities and recognise that your skills, education, and experiences have prepared you to thrive in your career.

Let this article serve as a reminder that you do belong in the rooms you enter, and your contributions are valuable. Keep striving forward, and don't let imposter syndrome hold you back from reaching your goals!

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